Friday, 30 December 2011
Happy New Years!
Tuesday, 20 December 2011
Christmas Time
My thought last week was all about Christmas, and I know there is probably a lot more I could say concerning the matter. However, this week I have been focusing a lot on goals for the upcoming year (2012). As a missionary, we set lots of goals. We have daily, weekly, transfer (every 6 weeks), and yearly goals. However, as much as a mission is about finding, teaching, etc., it is also about becoming. We can become the person we want to be if we are willing to work hard, sacrifice and expect to achieve that potential we see in ourselves. I remember when people asked me what I expected from a mission, I would usually respond, "It is going to be a really good experience, and I am going to learn a lot." That answer is probably because I honestly didn't know what to expect and I am an optimistic person, so I almost always see the glass as half full. The more time I have spent here in England, I am finding that I was more right that I originally realized. In Preach My Gospel (a missionary's guide to the work), it states, "The first person you need to convert is yourself." When people think about missions, they often ask if we have been able to convert a lot of people. The reality of it is there are people who the Lord converts through our assistance, but a mission is really a time of conversion for ourselves. As much as we focus on others, we also focus on ourselves. For example, I cannot help someone else achieve happiness until I have found that joy in my own life. Furthermore, if I am not a good teacher, then I will never be able to convey the message I am trying to share and help others understand. There are aspects of my life that I need to focus on and improve in order to become a missionary that can help others find these things out for themselves.
Therefore, I have been praying, pondering and studying about goals for the upcoming year (2012). An idea that keeps coming to my mind is the importance of thoughts. We know that thoughts lead to actions and that God is the only one who knows our thoughts, but what is the significance of thoughts? As I have pondered thoughts, I have come to understand that we can master our thoughts. While no one else around us may know what we are thinking, they are still a significant part of who we are. In my mind, I came up with two potential problems with our thoughts—bad thoughts and good thoughts that are not acted upon. The first can be solved in different ways such as “delete keys” (a subtle action just like on a computer that will erase what you were thinking about), replacing it with a song, etc. However, the second is much more difficult to overcome. How often when we have a good thought and don’t act upon it or record it, do we forget it? For me, it happens probably more often than it should. We need to make sure the good thoughts are brought into action. Once we have achieved this transition from thoughts to actions, we are able to accomplish more good and better follow the promptings of the Spirit. We are even able to have more charity in our lives with an optimistic outlook on the world. I am continuing to ponder my goals for the upcoming year, but I think mastering my thoughts and doing good will be part of who I want to become this next year.
On another note, many of you asked about my companion, Sister Gallozo. She is from Spain, specifically the north by the border with Portugal. She didn't know English before coming to England really, so I am impressed by what 16 months of living here has done because it is pretty much flawless now. There are still a few times where I have to double check what she is talking about, but that is a rare case. It is amazing how many different languages there are and yet you have the ability to learn multiple of them. She was studying literature (Spanish literature) at university before coming on a mission, but now she is not exactly sure what she wants to do. She was kind of hoping that her mission would help her recognize what she wanted to do with her life, but unfortunately, that wish has not come quite true. It makes me grateful for my decision to be a math teacher because it gives me direction in my life and I know it is something that I will enjoy. One of the greatest things I have learned from Sister Gallozo is hard work. Even when she is tired, she desires to do good and wants to work hard. That persistence and ability to push through tough times is definitely something to look up to.
Well I hope everyone is staying warm. Merry Christmas and enjoy the time spent with loved ones! Speak to you soon :) Thanks for all your love and support.
Love, Becca
p.s. Here are some comments about the pictures:
Monday, 12 December 2011
The Christmas Season Has Arrived!
Monday, 5 December 2011
Four months already
Wednesday, 30 November 2011
Quick One
Tuesday, 22 November 2011
Happy Thanksgiving!
The weather has taken a turn for the worse. Luckily, I went ahead and bought a winter coat or two last week to keep myself warm. They are wool and should last me for the cold winter months. Plus layers is the key. I haven't had to put on too may layers yet, but I will admit that I pulled out my wool tights. The cold weather is rapidly approaching us. The nice thing is that it hasn't rained much, so I feel lucky about that.
Yesterday we had stake conference. Elder Kerr, one of the area authorities, spoke about a meeting he had with Elder David A. Bednar. He quoted Elder Bednar when he said, “I did not choose to be an apostle; I was called of God.” In that moment, I felt that quote applied to me. “I [Sister Jack] did not choose to be a missionary; I was called of God.” A mission is really like a roller coaster, in the sense that it is filled with ups and downs. It can be exhilarating. And it can be difficult. I will admit that I never thought I would understand why everyone said a mission was such hard work, but I am starting to understand. However, at the end of the day, I know that this is Heavenly Father’s will for me. I was called of God and there is no way I can deny that. As a result, I push through the hard times and rely on my Savior for strength. I increase my faith and pray that I will see miracles happen, even if it is just something small. I feel like Nephi in Helaman 10:4-5 when I go forth declaring the word with unwearyingness knowing that I am doing the will of the Father.
Right now I haven't met too many people here in Manchester because I have only been here a few days. I will be sure to report more about the people I getting to know better in the future. After all, I will be spending Christmas with these people so I am sure that I will get to know them fairly well. Know that I love each of you and am grateful for all that you do. Keep up the good work!
Love, Becca (aka Sister Jack)
Friday, 18 November 2011
Transfers...Any guesses?
To give you some insight to the miracles we have recently seen, let me tell you about an experience. We know that the ward and stake leaders hold the keys to missionary work in our areas (in other words they are in charge of the work that is done). The mission president is really just in charge of the missionaries, myself included. As a result, our mission president advised us to go to the bishop and ask him to prayerfully choose areas for the missionaries to focus on. We told him on Saturday night, and by Sunday after church we were in Bishop Gifford’s office talking about it. He said that he was awakened at 4 a.m. with locations of where we should be. Bishop assigned the elders to Hindley (a location we had recently been drawn to and been having success), while we were assigned to Bryn. I know that these locations were inspired and that the Wigan elders have a lot of good work ahead of them. (Side note: This is the same day that the 40 day fast started as well.)
Ever since that meeting, the work in Wigan just took off. We met with a family, the Needhams, (who we hadn’t seen in a few weeks) who happened to live in Bryn to tell them we were leaving. They agreed to continue to meet with the elders, and I think they will gain a testimony for themselves and be baptized. I am not sure if that is the reason the bishop assigned us to Bryn, but I definitely think it is part of the reason. I know that for whatever reason the Needhams needed a little break, and it appears they have a true desire to know if The Book of Mormon is true and then follow through with the implications of that knowledge. Honestly, I saw a huge change from the dad, Simon, who was rather quiet and eager to listen opposed to the slightly contentious and talkative man we had taught about a month earlier. Not to mention his wife, Aldona, made sure that the member who was with us would return with the elders. She took quite a liking to the member, and it is clear they have formed a bond. I see a bright future ahead for them, especially because they already are searching for the truth and have a close family unit.
Additionally, we saw some wonderful miracles in Hindley. We found two new investigators there! We met Kirsty last Saturday and set up an appointment. Unfortunately, we had lost her number, so we stopped by a bit earlier than expected. When she came to the door, she told us to come back at our scheduled time because a friend wanted to sit in on the lesson too—what a blessing. Furthermore, on our bus ride out to Hindley, I met a nice young lady named Amy on the bus. She was atheist and didn’t really accept the message I was sharing, so our conversation eventually died off. About five minutes later, she tapped me on the shoulder and asked how long I would be in Hindley for? She told me that her brother, Lewis, believes in God and suggested that we stopped by to visit him. Through a series of events, we were unable to stop by. However, the elders did go by later that evening and they were able to teach four people! (For the record, that is a lot...) The work is truly picking up in Wigan and I know that they will see miracles happen this next transfer. I am excited to know what results we see happen, even if I may not be a part of them and not know the exact specifics of everything that occurs.
While I am sad to leave Wigan, I know that the Lord has need of me elsewhere (Manchester South to be specific). I know that the Lord has a hand in this work and that it is His will for me to be in Manchester. I am not sure what that means at the moment, but I know that I will work hard and do my best to accomplish whatever His will may be. I have recently been grateful to have such a rich heritage to look up to and legacy to follow. I really do feel honored to have such a good family, which includes more than just those I love at home. I know that I am continually making my family bigger as I meet new people and form bonds with them.
Thanks for all your love and support! I am excited to see what I have to report next week because it is a whole new area, so there is a lot to look forward to :)
Love always, Becca (aka Sister Jack)
I know that you love seeing my smiling face, so here are some photos of myself. :)
First, Christmas comes quite early here with no Thanksgiving to delay things. This is a picture of Sister Davis and I at a member's home. Christmas season is definitely already here!
Second, this is a picture of myself and a member, Sister Higham. She is great and always willing to come out with us. She takes good care of us and makes sure we always have plenty of fruit to eat :)
Third, a member gave us snuggies, so here is Sister Davis and I wearing them. If only you could have a full body shot to see what they look like. They are fun! And should keep us warm while we study.
Fourth, this is the view out my window each morning from where I study. Notice the plant. I planted that at the beginning of my mission and look how much it has grown over the last 3 months! Isn't that crazy? Go ahead and read Alma 32 because faith is like a seed and that chapter in The Book of Mormon describes it perfectly.
Monday, 7 November 2011
3 months...already?
I went ahead and attached a picture from Brother Andrew's baptism. It went beautifully well and he is excited for this change in his life. Baptism is a covenant or a promise with God and is really just an outward expression of a change that is happening on the inside. I have honestly noticed this change in Daniel's life, and I know that he will forever be blessed for the decision he made.
One area that I decided to improve in this week was travel contacting. Travel contacting basically refers to talking to people while you are traveling places such as on the bus, train, etc. The idea is that there are people everywhere that need to hear our message and what is the difference if you meet them on the bus or on the street? To be honest, I wasn't comfortable with travel contacting at first. Talking to people in confined places just didn't seem fair, mostly to them. However, this week, our zone leaders (Elder Dantas and Elder Feith) came to district meeting and talked about travel contacting. They mentioned how we should be having quality conversations with people as we traveled. As a result, I focused on having one quality conversation about the gospel each time I traveled somewhere. I did not succeed every time I traveled, but everyone has his or her agency (or choice) so you can only do so much. Although, I did have some nice conversation that lasted between five and twenty minutes.
My favorite conversation (that came as a result of travel contacting) was with a young lad named Andrew. He was sitting across from me on the train ride to Liverpool. I figured when he looked up at some stage, I could get his attention and say hello. However, we sat there for at least 10 minutes while he just stared down at his iPhone. I kept thinking to myself, how sad is it that this young lad will not take his eyes off his phone? Between texting, listening to music and doing who knows what, he seemed completely unaware of his surroundings. Finally, I was to wave and catch his attention. He took his earphones out and we had a quality gospel conversation. While we talked about the gospel, we also discussed our interests and how the gospel applies into many aspects of our lives. He grew up in Liverpool and is going to University (studying history) there. He likes to cook and his family is very important to him. He is not in my area, so I gave his contact information to some other missionaries. I am not sure what will happen, but I do know one thing—he took a moment that day to appreciate the people around him rather than his phone. How often do we go around and forget to notice the things around us? I notice it more and more in the world today that we get caught up with technology and forget the simplicity of life and its beauty. I challenge each of you to take a look around you the next time you are outside for a walk and say hello to a neighbor, smile at the person passing you on the sidewalk and enjoy nature. I know that as we do these things, we find greater happiness and joy in the simplicity of life.
That is all for now, but I will be sure to write more next week. Next week is transfers, so you won't hear from me until Wednesday. I will most likely be staying in Wigan and getting a new companion, but you never know for sure. That is at least what Sister Davis is fairly confident of.
Love you all and I am grateful for all your support! It is wonderful to hear from you.
Becca
Tuesday, 1 November 2011
Happy Halloween!
Wednesday, 26 October 2011
Another Week
Tuesday, 18 October 2011
Another week has flown by...
Tuesday, 11 October 2011
The weather has changed...
Wednesday, 5 October 2011
Time flies...second transfer here we come.
So much has happened since 10 days ago when I wrote, and I don't even know where to start. How about last Friday when my companion and I attended a wedding. One of the ward members, Ben, got married at the Wigan chapel. Since Sister Davis is musically talented, she was asked to play the piano/organ for the wedding. Then since I am her companion, I attended as well. We took that picture of us after the wedding because it was a special day. For the record, missionaries usually don't attend weddings, and we only were able to with special permission from the mission president. It was a fun experience, and it was nice to be able to serve the ward.
Next, general conference was absolutely brilliant (substitute word for amazing in England). General Conference, which happens semi-annually, is a chance for us to be able to hear from the prophet and apostles on the earth today. It was great to hear from them. As other missionaries kept telling me, "It's better than Christmas!" When you are used to being spiritually fed each day, General Conference truly is a time where a lot of great things happen. One of my favorite talks was from Dieter F. Uchtdorf. He talked about how God knows us each individually. We are very important to him, "we are everything." At times we may seem insignificant, but I know that Heavenly Father knows us each individually and cares about us individually. You can find the talk at this website: http://lds.org/general-conference/watch/2011/10?lang=eng&vid=1194756909001&cid=12 to listen to it. President Uchtdorf can put things better than me, so I encourage everyone to listen to it. There are a lot of other things I enjoyed, but since I don't have much time I will have to give more updates later. Although, I am wicked excited the Provo Tabernacle is going to be in a temple! I remember when the tabernacle burned down, so to know that it is going to be a temple is very special. I am excited to return to BYU and enjoy the blessings of having another temple so nearby. The temple is truly a special place, and I know that you can feel peace there. It is the only place we can be sealed to our families for time and all eternity, and I am grateful for my knowledge of that sealing power.
Know that I am doing well and loving the work I am doing. Keep doing good in the world today, we need good people :)
Love, Sister (Becca) Jack
Tuesday, 27 September 2011
Monday, 19 September 2011
Another Week
Monday, 12 September 2011
A Week of Miracles
And now for some photos:
Have fun finding me in this one. It's kind of like where's Waldo.

This photo is from the church history tour. It is of me just being kind of silly and fake knocking at a door. Mostly I just liked this photo, so I passed it along.
The baptism photo is from last week. Walter is Hayley's boyfriend, who was baptized earlier this year, and he baptized her. Hayley is the one who got baptized, and I think I told you about her briefly another time. Then Dylan is her little boy. He is adorable! And he has a ton of energy at the same time. He is well behaved, and Hayley is a great mother to him. Then you have Sister Davis and myself.
Another photo is of Sister Davis and myself during the church history tour. I just thought I would show the world who my companion is and the person I have been spending the last 3 weeks with. She is a bundle of fun! And has a ton of energy. She loves the gospel and shows it daily as she talks to people.
